

In
marriages it is all too easy to let our fondness and admiration for one another
slip away, especially with all the to do’s that steal our time, thoughts, and
focus.
Time

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf,
an apostle of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, “I think most of
us intuitively understand how important the fundamentals are. It is just that
we sometimes get distracted by so many things that seem more enticing.”
Thoughts

Focus
Here is the real sign of a committed
relationship. Where is your focus? Everyday ask yourself, “Where is my focus?”
You spend your time and your thoughts on your focus. Do you find yourself
positively thinking of your spouse when they are not around you? Commitment, as
discussed by Robert Lauer, “in marriage seems to mean three things: promise,
dedication, and attachment.” The author defines commitment as “a promise of
dedication to a relationship in which there is an emotional attachment to
another person who has made the same promise.” Focus guides our thoughts
and the ways we spend our time. When we are committed, we are focused.
Marriage is fun! Marriage can be happy and wonderful! It’s
not fake nor surreal. It’s joyous! True, marriage is filled with sacrifice and
giving of self, but those sacrifices are like “down payments” for the eternal
joys that follow! (Goddard, 35). Our “To Do” list items change from sandy
foundations to solid rock foundations. Be like the wise man who built his house
upon the rock (Matthew 7:24-25). When we give our time, positive thoughts and
focus to our loved ones our relationship is enhanced with joy beyond measure
and love at home.
Uchtdorf, Dieter F. “Of
Things that Matter Most” General Conference October, 2010. https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2010/10/of-things-that-matter-most?lang=eng
Goddard, H. Wallace. “Drawing
Heaven into your Marriage” Meridian Publishing, 2007.
Holy Bible, Matthew 7, vs
24-25.
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